That’s a big no to all of the above. Life coaching is all about getting you in touch with your biggest power source — YOU! I don’t have the answers that you’re looking for, you do. Sometimes limiting beliefs and stories about your self-worth get in the way. That’s where I come in. I’ll help you cut through the noise to hear what your intuition is trying to tell you and I’ll encourage you to take action from there.

Are you sick and tired of your current reality and ready to make some changes but are having trouble believing it’s possible?

Are you hopeful for the future and know that you were meant for great things, even if you’re not taking action from this space now?

Are you ready to dig deep, gain clarity and take action toward your dreams?

If you answered yes to any of these questions then you are a perfect candidate for coaching!

Did you find yourself saying at any point “holy shit that sounds just like me!”? Then chances are we’ll be a good fit! If you resonated with what you’ve heard thus far on my podcast, blog or social media, then we’re likely a good fit! But that’s also what the free clarity call is for! We hop on a call so you can test me out as a coach and so we can both make sure we’d have a successful relationship together!

I will guide, support and encourage you but ultimately what you achieve during our time together is up to you.

I’m available via text between sessions and I am always down for a little pep talk, but I’m not with you 24/7 and I can’t control what you do. All achievements will be relative to the amount of time, attention and commitment you dedicate to your goals.

Therapy is so powerful and impactful and can be a beautiful part of moving forward in life. That said, therapy and counselling often work to get to the root of why something happened in the past. You discuss your past experiences and can often even discuss things that happened in childhood. It’s about understanding why something happened and accepting where you are now.

Coaching is about moving you from where you are now to where you want to be. This isn’t about negating the past or ignoring it, but about placing your focus on where you want to be. It’s like shooting an arrow, you need to place your attention on where you want it to go. Coaching helps you ‘focus your arrow’ on your vision for yourself and then take the necessary steps to get there!

Then this isn’t the right choice for right now and that’s okay. We all need time and space to come to our answers for ourselves and when it’s the right time you’ll know. The only thing I would encourage you to do here is analyze what actions you’re currently taking. You’ve made it this far on my website so I know you’re interested in moving forward and crushing your goals, so don’t stop now! When you leave here, make a plan to take action! And if you need some help you can download my free Crush Your Goals ebook in the Free Resource Library.

Change can be scary, but you can also choose to tell yourself a more empowering story to make the process easier. It doesn’t need to be overwhelming either – that’s where working with a coach comes in!

Working with a coach will help you organize your goals and break them down into achievable steps. You’ll never feel overwhelmed because you have unlimited support to guide you and cheer you on through the entire process!

Trust me when I say that your attitude about what you’re working on and the coaching relationship will affect it more than anything. Your attitude will affect the effort you put in and the actions that you do or don’t take!

I can promise you that you are not alone. Opening up about what you’re struggling with makes things easier. Your ‘problems’ and goals will likely seem a lot more manageable once you open up and share them with me!

There’s also something to be said for effort! I can’t help you do what you aren’t willing to do for yourself! As we work on improving your mindset, achieving your goals becomes a matter of following the specific steps from point A to point B!

I can’t make any promises that this time will be. Only you are in control of that. But what I can promise you is fierce, loving support in gaining clarity on what you want and direction to go after it. If you’ve made it this far and are reading this you’re hungry for change. You want this but you’re scared. That’s normal. Fear isn’t trying to stop you. It’s your internal GPS telling you that something *matters to you.* Only you can know if this is the right choice and what you’re willing to do to get what you want. Working with me will help you find more direction and fine-tune your desires to have a clear path forward.

I can totally respect that this is a big investment and that that can sometimes feel scary but, in this case, fear is your friend. It’s not saving you from some life-threatening situation, instead, it’s working as a GPS pointing you in the direction of something that matters to you. This is amazing! You’re already one step closer to gaining the clarity that you desire!

But still, let’s take a second and break this bad boy down for you. Ask yourself these questions and, if you feel called to, write down your answers:

* How much are you currently spending on personal development books, courses, seminars, etc.?

* How much time have you invested in reading these books, completing these courses and attending these seminars?

* How much time have you already invested worrying, overthinking, and stressing about this situation?

* Have any of the above gotten you the results that you were hoping for?

Basically it boils down to this: **has what you’ve been trying worked for you?** If the answer is yes, then keep on with your bad self! You’ve totally got this. But if you’re here reading this then there’s a chance that the answer is no.

Look, I get it. I will never pressure someone into making this choice. It's personal and that would completely change the dynamic of the coaching relationship. I’ve been pressured into coaching and I know how gross that feels. You need to feel like making this investment in yourself is the next right step! You need to trust both me and yourself that this is the right choice.

Here’s the bottom line: you deserve to have an amazing life. If that’s not your current reality I want you to ask yourself why.

Why are you not currently living the life you’ve been dreaming of? And how long do you want to wait to live this way?

I promise you that coaching and the effort that you put into it can and will change your life. It just requires a little leap of faith. If you’d like to discuss payment plans please email me at alessia@candicealessia.com